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Why sometimes the proverb that it’s best to be your own man is true?\u00a0\u00a0 When is working together is<\/span> a good choice? What about duets and goals?<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Minuet for four hands<\/strong><\/h2>\n

The hall is full. People clap their hands. In a moment I’ll sit by the piano and I’ll play a minuet. In a duo. Besides of<\/span> stress I feel much<\/span> excited. And suddenly, I hear the first bars of the minuet. I’m in panic!<\/p>\n

It happened when I was 12 but it gave a good lesson. True cooperation is based on sharing mindfulness – two people are focused on each other. If you don’t focus on the other person and your partner doesn’t focus on you, you won’t get the goal.<\/p>\n

Duet is good when two people create and produce a new thing (which can be a product , a service, an event) and they realize that they couldn’t have produced it on their own.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Why we get lost cooperating with others<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Together can be better. It can be more effective. It happens that without another person it’d be hard to run a project, like Charms of Business<\/a>. So if cooperation is so great why can people get lost working together with others? Below some things which are crucial to remember:<\/p>\n

    \n
  1. discuss in details finance and settlement,<\/li>\n
  2. don’t\u00a0 prioritize your goal over your common goal,<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    3.don’t focus on the thought: what can I get from it, but know well: what you can give people together,<\/p>\n

      \n
    1. establish clear rules of cooperation ( what is allowed and what is not)<\/li>\n
    2. don’t guess – just ask and talk,<\/li>\n
    3. if your cooperation doesn’t work, finish it.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

       <\/p>\n

      Hunting a bull and true cooperation<\/strong><\/h2>\n

      I’m in the middle of a project with Anna Urba\u0144ska<\/a>. We are working together. We have a common goal. There is mutual mindfulness. The experience connected with working on a guide book How to build a good image in 30 days<\/em> reminds me about formulating a common goal which is described *Bratman. And he took as an example hunting a bull and following his example I would describe our good cooperation this way:<\/p>\n

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      1. my aim is to publish the book together with Anna,<\/li>\n
      2. Anna’s aim is to publish the book together with me,<\/li>\n
      3. we shared the knowledge and we know our common goal well,<\/li>\n
      4. our goal is not publishing together, but something more: creating, working, publishing and sharing; all together.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

        \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

        *Bratman M 1992 Shared cooperative activity, “Philosophical Review”, nr 101 (2), s. 327-341<\/p>\n

        Proofreader: Marta Korsak.<\/a><\/p>\n

        Fot.medspring.eu\/int-coop-h2020<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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