{"id":1855,"date":"2015-07-28T20:12:29","date_gmt":"2015-07-28T20:12:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/justynaniebieszczanska.com\/?p=1855"},"modified":"2015-08-03T18:48:03","modified_gmt":"2015-08-03T18:48:03","slug":"criticism-becomes-scarce-in-the-world","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/justynaniebieszczanska.com\/en\/criticism-becomes-scarce-in-the-world\/","title":{"rendered":"Criticism becomes scarce in the world"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>True criticism is like a fertilizer which guarantees growing and good harvest. The access to criticism is difficult because it is delivered by only a few and really not many people can use it well.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Plants need fertilizers to grow. If you want to grow them following nature, use organic fertilizer. Criticism is such an organic fertilizer which let people develop.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>What is criticism?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It is the best feedback you can receive. Unfortunately, we have wrong opinions about criticism which is not any judgment. The word comes from the ancient Greek word <em>krino<\/em>, <em>krinein<\/em> which means: &#8220;divide, split, separate&#8221;.\u00a0\u00a0 So a person who delivers criticism shares his analysis and insights.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Does criticism hurt?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Most of us think about criticism as about something negative. But are we ready for criticism? It is like a microscope which lets us see more and understand more. So let&#8217;s treat it in rational and unemotional way. Usually it hurts if someone:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>is not confident enough,<\/li>\n<li>has low self-esteem,<\/li>\n<li>delivers personal judgment and not shares insights,<\/li>\n<li>uses such a situation to hurt another person,<\/li>\n<li>asks about criticism, but wants to be praised.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<blockquote><p>The aim is not to cope with criticism, but to use it effectively.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>True criticism&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>is about asking questions and having questions to ask. It should deliver a kind of discomfort, but this is a useful one. Thanks to this discomfort you get more confidence, you can see more possibilities and you develop. Criticism lets you see what you haven&#8217;t seen yet. It lets you verify your decisions. And the relation between people who practice it are based on much of respect.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Let&#8217;s listen to Aristotle: \u201cTo avoid criticism say nothing, do nothing, be nothing.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Profreader: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/pages\/English-Business-Class\/239433869408472\">Marta Korsak.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>True criticism is like a fertilizer which guarantees growing and good harvest. 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